Re: Coworker who won't take no for an answer

["Kerstin Peterson" <kerstin -dot- peterson -at- gmail -dot- com>]

Hi, Pat:
This SME is not your superviser, I assume. In which case, you have nothing
invested except the document for which he provides expertise. Go to your
boss. Tell him/her what is going on. If that is not feasible or comfortable,
go to the SME's boss. There is no reason for you to have to deal with this
kind of harrassment. HTH....

Kerstin

P.S. Where are you? We're looking to add writers to the team here....
On Tue, Jul 29, 2008 at 9:49 AM, Blount, Patricia A
<Patricia -dot- Blount -at- ca -dot- com>wrote:

> Good morning, all,
>
> I find myself in a precarious situation and wondered if you might advise
> me...
>
> I have a SME, a subject matter expert with review and sign-off
> responsibility for a guide I'm writing. He is a gifted programmer, a
> brilliant young guy probably in his late twenties. He's also very pushy.
>
>
> Since the start of this project, he's suggested - more than once - that
> I should bring my teenage sons to his favorite Saturday afternoon haunt,
> a local hobby shop. At the risk of sounding full of myself, it is
> embarrassingly obvious to me and to all of my cubicle neighbors that he
> has a crush.
>
> My sons have zero interest in this particular hobby and even if my boys
> enjoyed the activity, we would NOT attend for that reason alone. I am
> doing my best to discourage his attentions.
>
> He will not let the matter drop. He presses and pushes and even went so
> far as to call my mothering skills into question, suggesting that I am
> doing my sons a disservice by not forcing them into the shop. It may end
> up broadening their horizons and changing their lives.
>
> I've tried the obvious solutions - excusing myself, running off to
> meetings, picking up the telephone. I was even honest and told him
> outright my sons think his hobby is pretty lame. This was yesterday,
> after the tenth time he brought up the subject. He all but printed out
> resumes for the four people who own the store, explaining that a public
> defender, a published author, a former cop and a computer programmer are
> not nerds.
>
> Sigh.
>
> I'm dangerously close to losing my temper with him, which prompts this
> email to you. How can I shut him up without jeopardizing this project?
>
> Thank you all.
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